We do the best we can with what we are given, or at least that’s the idea. Life is filled with obstacles and stresses for all of us – jobs are trying, households require cleaning as do pets and children, relationships take time and work, friendships need love too, then there’s money, and most of all we place pressures on ourselves – but amidst all of this, try and take moments to appreciate the journey. Remember to enjoy what is being presented to you and have fun. What would your life be like if you had no home? No food? No friends? Plus, does it really matter if your house is immaculate? And do you ever look back and think, “gee that was such a great time in my life,” yet maybe you wish you had enjoyed it more..I can honestly say “I do.”

I was talking to a friend the other night about his break up, and because this is something I have most certainly been through I could relate to how heavy his heart felt. There was nothing all that special I could say because loss of any kind is so painful, and heartache hurts like hell, but the more we discussed ‘appreciation’ the better we both felt. Had he not met her he wouldn’t be the person he is today. Instead of being so hurt, he became more appreciative of all that he experienced with her. I understand this doesn’t remove the pain, oh I understand, but it makes it more bearable when you can see the bigger picture. Not to mention, we both decided that allowing love into your life is such a beautiful thing and well worth all the turmoil we risk each time we open our hearts. These are the experiences that make us grow the MOST.

It is so easy to rush through each day non-appreciative, yet it’s so important to spend a few minutes each day being grateful for everything you do have. When you do this you may find more meaning and value in your life, and more appreciation for yourself. Even if you are unsure as to why something is being presented because it feels uncomfortable, instead of resisting, try and allow it into your life knowing that there is a likely reason you are going through whatever is facing you. Each of our lives is beautiful in so many ways.

Have faith in your path. xo